
He's immature, likes going out, you like staying home, he's a party boy etc etc. You're already wondering and having doubts about it working with your ex and I think that speaks volumes. Have you raised with him how that makes you feel? Would he seek help for his anger? Your husband is displaying abusive behaviour which is completely unacceptable. Could you ensure that you don't see your ex for a good while so you can concentrate on what's going on at home? Your ex doesn't want to commit or be the reason for your break up and has said that on several occasions, but clearly there is something left there.Īnon, it's so complicated when two men are so prominent in your life.

He knows about your ex, and often brings him up in rows. This man is a stable man and a good dad, but your relationship is struggling and there are rows and he can be quite abusive with shouting and saying nasty things. You have shared history, and many years of it, but you moved on and married another man and had children together. You are in love with your ex and he says he's in love with you. what i want is to have no feelings for my ex. I do try so hard to make it work with my hubby,! but it shouldnt be a effert should it, who i fancy so much and love so much, but hes quite immurture, even i dont know if it will work? he goes out a lot, but hes stable, gosh that sounds so bad, but its true, we have house,car,my kids are happy etcīut sometimes i just want to be held by my ex and feel safe. he moans a lot, gets at me, shouts a lot,and can be very nasty and there just ist that lust there. i know its wrong to have feelings for someone and even have these kind off talks. My hubby deep down knows im in love with my ex, hes not stupid, he can see it. but hes a bit off a womens man, bigheaded,party person etc. im always left so confussed because, i do truley love my ex.


i just cant help it!īut everytime after one off our talks he says next day, no i cant be with you, its ot right on ur hubby and kids, i dot wnat to be the one to brake it up. we keep trying not to love each other but we do. we was happy.Įverytime i see my ex(esp when out) we chat and we always have the same conversation, i love him, he loves me, will it work, can he take me on with 2 children, we both feel guilty even talking about it. we was talking about giving us another go,īut next day he rang me and said sorry iv changed my mind, it wont work, i was heartbroken. a while after i met my hubby, before we married, me and ex saw one another and he said he loved me etc. Been married for 3 years together 6, and im still in love mith my ex who was my first love! we was together since we was teens for 7 years! we split due to just growing apart, doing own things etc.
